Monday, 8 June 2015

Yin and Yang in Relationship

Two sides of the coin, two principles. As we all know it well, yin is negative, dark, earthy, soft, wet, cold and feminine and yang is positive, bright, heavenly, hard, active, dry, hot and masculine. The interaction between these two influences the destinies of creatures and things on our planet. Their interaction maintains the harmony of the universe and to influence everything within it. Yang leads and Yin follows. Yin is the passive, negative force, and yang the active, positive force. The man is the spirit and the woman is the mother earth. The man interpenetrates, the woman takes in herself as a seed pierces into the ground and it sprouts there. Balance and harmony are the key words to the symbol of the Yin Yang, and it illustrates well how these opposites can create an equilibrium. 


Our universe is built upon the fact that everything has an opposite. We can't have one without the other, because if one does not exist, there would be an imbalance. Opposites attract each other without any question. If you don't believe it, just think about the magnet: opposite poles attract each other. The same poles never do. You need your feminine energy to attract a male. You are polar opposites. If you show your soft and feminine side, he has no choice than answer with his active, protective male energy. If you show yang and masculine energy as a woman, he will never see you as a female or a partner. He will look at you like he would look at another male. As a rival. It can be good in business as a competition always inspires to bring out the best from us, but in an intimate relationship? We already live in a world ruled by man, the feminine energy is missed almost from every aspects of our Life. We need to rediscover it and bring it back to find the balance in our relationships and family lives.

Man and woman are made to each other, to complete each other. You can believe in it, you can deny it, make the case for it or argue about it, it won't change the fact that these two poles are exist and interacts. You can say it's an old story but still true and valid in our days. 

 "You need your feminine energy to attract a male."

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